About me:I am a 40 year old male to female transsexual. In other words, I am a woman. If this doesn't please you, excite you, or in any other way interest you, please move along. I am not interested in anyone who won't see me as the woman that I am. I don't need someone else trying to turn me back into a man.
First and foremost, I am a translesbian. That means I am attracted to women. If you are on the masculine side of the gender spectrum, we are not going to be having any kind of sexual relation together.
I am very submissive in the bedroom. This means I will NOT dominate you. I will not tell you what to do. I won't make choices for you. I won't do anything that is in that vein for you. I will, however, submit to those whom I choose to. I will do as they tell me, and do my best to fulfill their wishes. I will not however, submit to any FinDoms, I am too poor for that shit. Also, please understand that I am submissive, not a slave. I maintain my own free will, and will not violate my limits for you. You don't own me, I am submitting because I want to.
HARD LIMITS: CBT, Chastity, Cuckold, Genital Torture, Scat, Blood, Needles, Dead, Animals.
Soft Limits Pain, humiliation, exposure.
Anything else is negotiable.
For any who are interested, I am only part time female right now. This has mostly to do with a literal court order that prevents me from completing my transition. It is a long story, but it basically involves custody of my son. I will not do anything to endanger my rights and responsibilities to my son as his progenitor.
I practice martial arts. I have actually been training for over 24 years now. My base style is tae kwon do, though I specialize in hapkido. I have also studied a little gung fu, karate, tai chi, and wu-yin yan-jing. I dabbled in a few other arts as well, but did not spend enough time in them worth speaking of. I am currently an instructor for one school within the martial arts organization I train in, and will soon be instructing for a second school in the same organization. That is to say, I am running the two schools. I won't say I am the chief instructor, because I reserve that right for my master. I am primarily focused on expanding my mental understanding of the martial arts. With that in mind, I love any good discussion of martial arts!
Within the last year, I have started trying to get back into more athletic activities. One of the big things I am doing now is called Tough Mudder. If you don't know what that is, I highly recommend you check it out. I will be participating in four Tough Mudders and one Toughest Mudder this year. In 2018, I am hoping to do a World's Toughest Mudder. I am also looking to run my first triathlon in 2017. I am also going to run in Vino and the Beast for the second time this year. Other evens I am going to try and participate in include 5K, 10K, half marathons, and potentially the Finger Lakes Mud Run. There is always room for people on my teams to participate in these events. If you enjoy these kind of things, let me know!
I am also a paramedic and a firefighter. I will not do anything that could put those professions in jeopardy. I am a fairly open person, but occasionally, there is a need for discretion.
I am looking for
The main goal of acquaintance: Serious relationship
Other goals of acquaintance: Just looking, internet friendship, traveling, friendship
